He found something else to obsess over instead of the person not responding to him. He has a serious anxious attachment which he doesn’t deal with very well. Finding this new inspiring individual has allowed him to focus his energy on someone and something else. Instead of a friendship or relationship, he found something else which he can dedicate himself fully to. Moreover, Jesse feels as if it is a more valuable way to spend his time as it can change the way he lives and views his life. This individual not only brought a distraction to him, but something life changing.